Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Update from Lisa Nov. 15, 2012
Dear Family and Friends
Our family is so proud of our brother/son/uncle/cousin for working so hard to teach a class this semester. With his visual impairment, we know it is so difficult and frustrating to do what was once routine that is now so time-consuming! We are also very proud of Keith who is doing so well and working so hard at University of Alabama-Huntsville as he pursues his degree in engineering. We were so elated to hear that the JPII High School Cross Country teams in Madison, Alabama(both boys and girls)were Runner-Ups in the State Meet and Stephen was All-State with his 15th place finish and a PR. YEAH!!! But as most of us acknowledge, behind every successful man is a wise woman and her name is Ginny! We salute ALL of you for your faith, your perseverance in the face of enormous obstacles, and your loving presence to your family and your community. Charge on!
Our family is so proud of our brother/son/uncle/cousin for working so hard to teach a class this semester. With his visual impairment, we know it is so difficult and frustrating to do what was once routine that is now so time-consuming! We are also very proud of Keith who is doing so well and working so hard at University of Alabama-Huntsville as he pursues his degree in engineering. We were so elated to hear that the JPII High School Cross Country teams in Madison, Alabama(both boys and girls)were Runner-Ups in the State Meet and Stephen was All-State with his 15th place finish and a PR. YEAH!!! But as most of us acknowledge, behind every successful man is a wise woman and her name is Ginny! We salute ALL of you for your faith, your perseverance in the face of enormous obstacles, and your loving presence to your family and your community. Charge on!
Monday, May 30, 2011
Joe update via Lisa
Happy Memorial Day everyone. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all those who have given their lives for our country and those military who are stationed overseas and missing their families. We also pray for all the victims of the tornados in Alabama and Joplin, Missouri—certainly a continued wake-up call to never take our loved ones for granted.
As per my brother’s request, I have attached a photo to this post of Joe along with two former UAH students: Willa Cummings (on left) and Meredith Johnston (on right). Joe recently took them out for dinner at Rosie’s. Willa has an interview with a progressive surgical unit at Huntsville Hospital, and Meredith has a job at the Huntsville Hospital ER. Joe commented, “Based on my experiences with them, I’m sure they will be skilled and compassionate nurses.” Our entire family continues to be very grateful to all the medical professionals that have helped and continue to aid in Joe’s recovery, but we have a special place in our hearts for the skilled and compassionate day-to-day care of all the wonderful nurses at Huntsville Hospital and related medical centers!
We continue to exhort all those students of medicine to continue to study diligently as you never know, as Ginny says, “Your knowledge and skill may someday save a life, as you saved the life of my husband.”
Hug your loved ones!
Lisa
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
May 25, 2011 Update from Ginny
Dear Family and Friends,
The forehead prostetic surgery in Birmingham went great. As you can see from the picture, the dent is no more. So the "new and improved Joe", as one friend commented, is right on target. I could not agree more. So many folks have been amazed at the success, prompting Joe to call his Surgeon, Dr. Fisher, the Master Craftsmen on our follow-up visit. Infection concerns are behind us now too. The incision is barely visible and back in the hair line. This same surgeon called Joe the Master Healer, and welcomed him back anytime from that standpoint! Pretty funny. Just last week Joe was released to exercise and resume all activities.
An amazing thing that we just realized is Joe has no impending surgeries on the horizon. What a great feeling. Additional work on his right eye will be basically cosmetic so for now Joe has opted just to take a wait and see approach for this issue.
So the horizon is back to normal. We are looking forward to some family travel this summer, college visits with Stephen and basically doing what most folks due in the summer. Wow. In the Fall, Joe will teach one class at UAH, with a classroom assistant. If that goes well, he hopes to pick up a second course for Spring. One step at a time. I remind him there is no rush and the University could not be more supportive of his gradual return.
I have always thought of us as a pretty boring couple and we are pretty much there. What a blessing! Thank for your prayers for this latest surgery. It could not have gone smoother.
Wishing everyone a peaceful summer.
Ginny
Thursday, April 21, 2011
April 23 update
Dear family and friends,
Just a quick note to let you know that Joe is now at home recovering--he was released from the hospital yesterday. He is doing well.
Blessings,
Lisa
Just a quick note to let you know that Joe is now at home recovering--he was released from the hospital yesterday. He is doing well.
Blessings,
Lisa
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
April 19, 2011 Updates from Ginny and Mom & Dad Leahy
Dear Family and Friends,
We wanted to let you know that Joe's surgery yesterday went great! The surgeon told everyone that the plate was a perfect fit. Joe ate a great supper last night and was ready to walk (though the nurses politely told him no, he wasn't ready yet). Joe eating and doing well again today. He had a CAT scan at 4 am this morning, but no one has peered under the bandages. Today he was moved to a regular room and may go home as early as tomorrow night. We are glad that Mom and Dad Leahy are there to help out!
We appreciate all your continuing prayers and please pray especially that he doesn't get MRSA again as this is a repeat surgery of what he had in October!
Love to all and to all our Christian friends, have a wonderful Easter!
Blessings,
Lisa
We wanted to let you know that Joe's surgery yesterday went great! The surgeon told everyone that the plate was a perfect fit. Joe ate a great supper last night and was ready to walk (though the nurses politely told him no, he wasn't ready yet). Joe eating and doing well again today. He had a CAT scan at 4 am this morning, but no one has peered under the bandages. Today he was moved to a regular room and may go home as early as tomorrow night. We are glad that Mom and Dad Leahy are there to help out!
We appreciate all your continuing prayers and please pray especially that he doesn't get MRSA again as this is a repeat surgery of what he had in October!
Love to all and to all our Christian friends, have a wonderful Easter!
Blessings,
Lisa
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Surgery for Joe Monday--prayers requested
With the blessing of several docs, Joe will have Neurosurgery next Monday, April 18, at UAB Hospital. This surgery is a repeat of the plate surgery from last September, except hopefully the infection part will be avoided!! The defect, as they call it, on his forehead will be repaired by inserting a plate. Joe is not concerned at all, this being his eighth surgery, feels like no big deal to him. Being somewhat of a worrier, do feel the normal concern but with the support of Phil and Jackie, Joe's parents, this too will be behind us....again.
As the Docs have signed off, Joe has been determined to be free of any lingering infection, MRSA or otherwise. So that alone is a great relief to both of us. And I must say Joe is the picture of health. Though still some weakness on his left side, much of his strength has returned. Fatigue is still a huge issue but with time I know that will improve too. Lots of naps are necessary but concentration seems to be improving all of the time. The vision is very limited which creates much of the fatigue. That is our next step....finding solutions to this vision strain. We have some leads out of state that I hope to pursue after Joe has recovered from this surgery.
The scleral shell has only been of very limited success. Our ophthalmologist thinks some surgery will ultimately be necessary on the right eye and that orbit (socket). But this will be well after the recovery from the plate and the doc feels this is no rush.
So we march on, anticipating surgery soon. Holy week and the joy of Easter will be celebrated with the boys and Joe's folks. That will be wonderful.
We wish you the same peace and joy.
Love, Ginny
As the Docs have signed off, Joe has been determined to be free of any lingering infection, MRSA or otherwise. So that alone is a great relief to both of us. And I must say Joe is the picture of health. Though still some weakness on his left side, much of his strength has returned. Fatigue is still a huge issue but with time I know that will improve too. Lots of naps are necessary but concentration seems to be improving all of the time. The vision is very limited which creates much of the fatigue. That is our next step....finding solutions to this vision strain. We have some leads out of state that I hope to pursue after Joe has recovered from this surgery.
The scleral shell has only been of very limited success. Our ophthalmologist thinks some surgery will ultimately be necessary on the right eye and that orbit (socket). But this will be well after the recovery from the plate and the doc feels this is no rush.
So we march on, anticipating surgery soon. Holy week and the joy of Easter will be celebrated with the boys and Joe's folks. That will be wonderful.
We wish you the same peace and joy.
Love, Ginny
Sunday, March 27, 2011
March 27, 2011 Update from Ginny
Dear Family and Friends,
It has been an exciting week. On Monday, Joe got his scleral shell prosthesis installed in his right eye. It adds volume under his lid, giving a slightly more natural look. It will be enlarged over time, with the goal to relieve irritation and drainage and for aesthetic purposes. His right lid opens slightly, occasionally. It seems unlikely that the blinking function will return but we will see.
When asked, Joe says it is not too bothersome and says he is not willing to spend energy thinking about it. So that is good. We went to the gym yesterday. For jogging, he is wearing gauze patches underneath his eye patch to insure the shell does not fall out. This shell is bigger than the last one but would still fall out if the lid happened to open.
Last Wednesday Joe gave a practice lecture to two of his therapists; General Microbiology 1. The lecture is from the class he hopes to teach in the fall. It includes a PowerPoint presentation, chalk talk, along with the lecture. It got great reviews with one of the therapist indicating that she would have liked biology more if he had been her instructor! This was so reassuring to me and an answer to my prayers.
Then on Thursday we met with the therapists, disability/workers comp staff, and state rehab, trying to coordinate back to work needs. So much support has been offered. We are so blessed. New computer monitors, voice response software, and home therapy software are being ordered, along with some magnifying equipment for Joe's office and lab.
And finally, Joe is taking an on-line course in coaching so that he can support our Head Coaches for high school track and field. This has taken about 8 hours, and he is half way through. It is a lot of reading, short quizzes and tests. I am pleased to see him doing this task proficiently. It certainly has taken him significantly longer than it would otherwise due to his vision, but he has staying power and the willingness to do it even though it is a struggle and exhausting.
Eye (left) fatigues is a huge problem. We have some leads for this common issue, which will be on the agenda for after the next surgery....and tax season.
Spring has sprung in the South. The tulips are incredible.
Love, Ginny
It has been an exciting week. On Monday, Joe got his scleral shell prosthesis installed in his right eye. It adds volume under his lid, giving a slightly more natural look. It will be enlarged over time, with the goal to relieve irritation and drainage and for aesthetic purposes. His right lid opens slightly, occasionally. It seems unlikely that the blinking function will return but we will see.
When asked, Joe says it is not too bothersome and says he is not willing to spend energy thinking about it. So that is good. We went to the gym yesterday. For jogging, he is wearing gauze patches underneath his eye patch to insure the shell does not fall out. This shell is bigger than the last one but would still fall out if the lid happened to open.
Last Wednesday Joe gave a practice lecture to two of his therapists; General Microbiology 1. The lecture is from the class he hopes to teach in the fall. It includes a PowerPoint presentation, chalk talk, along with the lecture. It got great reviews with one of the therapist indicating that she would have liked biology more if he had been her instructor! This was so reassuring to me and an answer to my prayers.
Then on Thursday we met with the therapists, disability/workers comp staff, and state rehab, trying to coordinate back to work needs. So much support has been offered. We are so blessed. New computer monitors, voice response software, and home therapy software are being ordered, along with some magnifying equipment for Joe's office and lab.
And finally, Joe is taking an on-line course in coaching so that he can support our Head Coaches for high school track and field. This has taken about 8 hours, and he is half way through. It is a lot of reading, short quizzes and tests. I am pleased to see him doing this task proficiently. It certainly has taken him significantly longer than it would otherwise due to his vision, but he has staying power and the willingness to do it even though it is a struggle and exhausting.
Eye (left) fatigues is a huge problem. We have some leads for this common issue, which will be on the agenda for after the next surgery....and tax season.
Spring has sprung in the South. The tulips are incredible.
Love, Ginny
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
March 24, 2011 Ginny via Lisa
Dear Family and Friends,
I sudddently ran into a problem logging into the blog which Derek fixed for me. This blog was suppose to be posted before St. Patrick's Day so lot has transpired since then. Here is the entry from Ginny from March 16. There will be more updates soon.
Love, Lisa
From Ginny:
I feel badly that I have been so delinquent in providing information. It was sort of easier when Joe was regaining abilities by leaps and bounds. But as I mentioned on the phone, this last 20% of recovery is going to be rough. Frustrations with limitations and awareness of same makes for some hard times. But both Joe and I see continue progress with the help of so many professionals and certainly by the Grace of God.
So here is the post. Adjust as you see fit.
We are happy to share this photo of our family that Phil took at Christmas. You can see Joe's forehead defect and his right eye lid does not open nor does this eye have the capacity for vision. Procedures to determine the best course of action for Joe's right eye are in the works currently. Right now the plan is to reinsert the plate in Joe's forehead in mid-April and we are pretty excited about giving it another try.
Joe has set a goal to teach one class in the Fall. Lofty, to say the least but he certainly has the will to do it. The University could not be more helpful in helping achieve this goal. I am excited to see some of Joe's executive functions returning. We knew this would be the rough part as the right frontal lobe was so greatly injured. Layer this with very limited vision and boy, is it tough. But I see evidence of improvement in keeping track of things, organization, calendar management and he has even begun developing logical schedules for Stephen in track practice. I am excited to see continued improvement using a computer, especially programs like excel and other critical applications. I regularily see him doing track spreadsheets, inserting rows and columns with a format that changes from week to week. That is really cool. We work together to do some timing at the meets for our athletes, just for practice.
It has been so fastinating to witness the healing process of the brain and body. I am humbled to see the work of God's Hand. While frustration is now a regular feeling, we are constantly reminded by well wishers of just how far we have come. We are so blessed to enjoy continued recovery and even more so, blessed to have by great families and friends keeping us in their continued prayers.
So the Leahy's say, Happy St. Patricks Day.
Love, Ginny
Monday, February 14, 2011
Saturday, Feb. 12, 2011 From Ginny via Lisa
Dear Family and Friends,
Today at 2:00, UAH is having a Remembrance and Renewal service in recognition of the one year anniversary of the shooting. Joe and I will attend. As I understand the program, speakers will talk about the deceased faculty with the idea that their shared mission to educate is being carried forward. There is so much emotion surrounding this event as we mourn our deceased colleagues yet persevere in hope in the resilience of the many good people who survived this tragedy.
Though we must take time to remember, I will be glad when today is over as I find myself reliving some of that horrible day. It is somewhat of a blessing that I can't recall much of the first days; I suppose some state of shock has blocked certain memories and images.
I suppose the strange part is that this whole thing has brought us closer, maybe out of necessity or maybe it is part of our plan. It has surely brought us closer to our faith and definitely helped me to see that we are not in control and each day is an opportunity to live well or not. Some of the hardest parts for us are ahead but I still see great recovery and even where we are right now would be fine. Joe has set goals that he is working toward and he will get there.
Perhaps the overwhelming feeling I have is one born of humble gratitude
I so am thankful for today.
Thankful that we can go to the ceremony together, Joe being much his normal self.
Thankful that the wheelchair gathers dust in the corner,
and proved to be unnecessary,
as so many of the medical supplies and devises.
Thankful that there are antibiotics and wonderful caregivers
to manage the current and previous infections.
Thankful that Joe has a wonderful attitude,
that he is fun and agreeable in managing life in a different manner.
Thankful for great sons who smile and help me be strong.
Thankful for parents, brothers and sisters, family and friends
who keep the prayers coming and that I know will help on a moment’s notice.
Thankful for the financial support of the university and my employer, Nancy,
so the day to day operations of living have not been strained.
Thankful for my continued good health and the good health of our children.
May today be a wonderful day for each of you,
May your coffee taste the best ever,
May your clothes feel just right,
May the smile of a loved one fill you with peace,
May you enjoy a laugh,
And may you feel the presence of God within you,
In good times and in bad.
Love, Gin
Today at 2:00, UAH is having a Remembrance and Renewal service in recognition of the one year anniversary of the shooting. Joe and I will attend. As I understand the program, speakers will talk about the deceased faculty with the idea that their shared mission to educate is being carried forward. There is so much emotion surrounding this event as we mourn our deceased colleagues yet persevere in hope in the resilience of the many good people who survived this tragedy.
Though we must take time to remember, I will be glad when today is over as I find myself reliving some of that horrible day. It is somewhat of a blessing that I can't recall much of the first days; I suppose some state of shock has blocked certain memories and images.
I suppose the strange part is that this whole thing has brought us closer, maybe out of necessity or maybe it is part of our plan. It has surely brought us closer to our faith and definitely helped me to see that we are not in control and each day is an opportunity to live well or not. Some of the hardest parts for us are ahead but I still see great recovery and even where we are right now would be fine. Joe has set goals that he is working toward and he will get there.
Perhaps the overwhelming feeling I have is one born of humble gratitude
I so am thankful for today.
Thankful that we can go to the ceremony together, Joe being much his normal self.
Thankful that the wheelchair gathers dust in the corner,
and proved to be unnecessary,
as so many of the medical supplies and devises.
Thankful that there are antibiotics and wonderful caregivers
to manage the current and previous infections.
Thankful that Joe has a wonderful attitude,
that he is fun and agreeable in managing life in a different manner.
Thankful for great sons who smile and help me be strong.
Thankful for parents, brothers and sisters, family and friends
who keep the prayers coming and that I know will help on a moment’s notice.
Thankful for the financial support of the university and my employer, Nancy,
so the day to day operations of living have not been strained.
Thankful for my continued good health and the good health of our children.
May today be a wonderful day for each of you,
May your coffee taste the best ever,
May your clothes feel just right,
May the smile of a loved one fill you with peace,
May you enjoy a laugh,
And may you feel the presence of God within you,
In good times and in bad.
Love, Gin
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Post from Joe Via Lisa--Denise Funeral
Hi Everyone,
They had the funeral this morning for Denise, the nurse that took care of me at home when I had the MRSA infection this past fall. The church was packed. Father Phil did a very good job - very nice service, but very sad. One good thing wasathat about 8 of the nurses that took care of me at Huntsville Hospital were there, and I was able to say thank you to them and give them all hugs.
Stephen has first track meet this Saturday. Due to all the bad weather, not sure the distance runners are quite ready.
Love,
Joe
They had the funeral this morning for Denise, the nurse that took care of me at home when I had the MRSA infection this past fall. The church was packed. Father Phil did a very good job - very nice service, but very sad. One good thing wasathat about 8 of the nurses that took care of me at Huntsville Hospital were there, and I was able to say thank you to them and give them all hugs.
Stephen has first track meet this Saturday. Due to all the bad weather, not sure the distance runners are quite ready.
Love,
Joe
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Post from Joe via Lisa
Everyone,
In October, when I was suffeereing from my MRSA, the insurance company paid for a nurse, Denise Humphrey, to change my IV and dressings every few days. Ginny was to change the IV lines on the days in between. It was pretty complicated, and wheen Ginny made some slight errors the first few times, she was very upset. She leaned on Denise, who was very kind and patient with Ginny, and gave Ginny the confidence she needed. Last Mondaay, Denise was working at Huntsville Hospital and went for a bathroom break. Her co-workers found her 15 minutes later, slumped on the floor in a coma. We don't know what happpened except that Denise had an irregulaaar heartbeat that may have contributed She was comatose all week, and when an MRI revealed extensive brain daamage, her family took her off life support (she had a living will). Denise died yesterday. She was only 37 years old, and left a husband, a son Connor, aged 9, and Samantha, age 11. Please join me in praying for the repose of Denise and for her family.
Love,
Joe
In October, when I was suffeereing from my MRSA, the insurance company paid for a nurse, Denise Humphrey, to change my IV and dressings every few days. Ginny was to change the IV lines on the days in between. It was pretty complicated, and wheen Ginny made some slight errors the first few times, she was very upset. She leaned on Denise, who was very kind and patient with Ginny, and gave Ginny the confidence she needed. Last Mondaay, Denise was working at Huntsville Hospital and went for a bathroom break. Her co-workers found her 15 minutes later, slumped on the floor in a coma. We don't know what happpened except that Denise had an irregulaaar heartbeat that may have contributed She was comatose all week, and when an MRI revealed extensive brain daamage, her family took her off life support (she had a living will). Denise died yesterday. She was only 37 years old, and left a husband, a son Connor, aged 9, and Samantha, age 11. Please join me in praying for the repose of Denise and for her family.
Love,
Joe
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
Jan. 5, 2010 Lisa as communicated from Ginny
Dear Family and Friends,
The last six weeks, wow have they been something. And mostly just great from the recovery standpoint.
But before all the medical stuff, here are the fun parts.
When the MRSA infection came on in October, and the plate had to be removed, one of my first thoughts was that the "Big" game was off but Joe's IV was removed the Tuesday before Thanksgiving and we were a go. Dr. Spera, Infectious Disease, indicated that OSU has an excellent ID department, meaning that if we see any hint of infection, to get there right away!! Well, I kept watch and no recurrence. Two weeks ago, Dr. Spera said, "Well, call me if you need me otherwise you are good to go". Yet another wonderful physician with a great capacity for care and most especially kindness and respect.
We did run the Turkey Trot on Thanksgiving morning. Crazy but a beautiful day and lots of friends were about wishing us well. Stephen ran too. Keith slept in like a normal 19 year old. It was a fun event and finishing allowed that second piece of Pumpkin Pie! Then it was packing for the weekend.
When Joe started regaining his mental capacity several months ago, one of the first things he said was I just have to take Stephen to the OSU vs Michigan game, like I did with Keith several years ago. Joe said, "You never know what might happen". Well, it was incredible an adventure for Joe and Stephen. We flew in the Friday after Thanksgiving. John, our Best Man, gathered up Stephen and Joe and enjoyed a wonderful pizza and sub lunch, (yes both) and my sister Patty rescued me from all the testosterone and we went to lunch with Mom and my sisters Mary and Angie. What a great treat for me too and then it was back to Black Friday shopping then on to the Warnecke farm.
Back in Columbus, John had arranged a tailgate trip to a local restaurant to see two former OSU players and Joe even met Earl Bruce, a former coach. John and Lisa then hosted a party for Joe with several high school friends on Friday night. Saturday was game day and the weather was frigid but John, and his wife Lisa, took incredible care of all of the details to insure Joe's comfort and care. Saturday night a large group of Leahy's and Warnecke's met for dinner, again at John suggestion. Joe and Stephen then returned with me to my folks for a peaceful Sunday. My brother Ed and his wife Debbie served a chauffeurs and got us to Columbus to fly back to Alabama. Joe and Stephen had a thrilling weekend and I enjoyed a wonderful break.
We have made a few changes in Joe therapy regimen. Because the Low Vision Clinic in Birmingham, and specifically the Dynavision exercises, have proved so effective, we have decided to go once a week to Birmingham rather than every other week. So each Monday, probably for at least the next several months, we will make the drive. This therapy is designed to increase visual field by head movement strategies. The bonus effect I have noticed is increased reaction time and concentration in all areas of processing. Last month we also met with a driving therapist, Karen, to get an overall assessment. Quite to my surprise, the therapist found that Joe compensating techniques were amazing and there may be some limited opportunities for driving in the future. Certainly there are no guarantees but there is hope. Safety can never be substituted, for Joe and others on the road. Karen also works with patients on developing back to work strategies and she is excited to start working with Joe after the first of the year, twice a week. Both Karen and Shemetra, Joe's speech therapist, understand that Joe's primary goal is to get back to work. Practice lecturing, using PowerPoint software, tracking data, and managing student needs are all on the agenda. Plus, after the first of the year, Dr. Moriarty at UAH has asked Joe to regularly attend a Friday class which she supervises. Joe's role will be simply as a participant but being back in the environment will be so wonderful. The energy of students is so infectious.
Joe is now recognizing difficulties in several areas, especially the "executive functions", which are managed in the right frontal lobe of the brain, Joe area of injury. Just the "recognition" of this problem is fabulous in and of itself. Of course, I know he has problems in this area but his own ability to know of the problem is the first step to compensating behavior. Executive functions include organizing, sorting and keeping track of things, events, and even the day of the week. All of these items were impossible for Joe to manage several months ago but now he is understanding the problem and we are starting to find solutions for constant annoyances like misplacing personal items. It is miraculous for me to see his progress but there is a long road ahead.
But the very best part of the last six weeks is Joe's new driver. Well, a friend, of a friend of a friend, knew of a fellow who would be interested in managing Joe's transportation needs. This has been such a source of anxiety for me and for my return to work. Hup, our new driver, is already a good friend. He is kind and considerate, treats Joe with respect and is attentive to Joe's needs. UAH sponsors the driver so even that is managed. In such a difficult situation, all we had to do was ask for help. Though I still fret about many things, I feel confident that we have found an answer to this problem.
So Christmas is here. Presents are wrapped. Travel plans are finalized. Joe and I talked yesterday of those who lost their loved ones that dreadful day last February. We grieve with you and for all of the children so dramatically changed by this tragedy. And for all families, who have lost a loved one, this past year or before their time. May the Spirit of Christmas allow peace and the comfort of memories to fill your heart now and always.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
With gratitude and love, Ginny
The last six weeks, wow have they been something. And mostly just great from the recovery standpoint.
But before all the medical stuff, here are the fun parts.
When the MRSA infection came on in October, and the plate had to be removed, one of my first thoughts was that the "Big" game was off but Joe's IV was removed the Tuesday before Thanksgiving and we were a go. Dr. Spera, Infectious Disease, indicated that OSU has an excellent ID department, meaning that if we see any hint of infection, to get there right away!! Well, I kept watch and no recurrence. Two weeks ago, Dr. Spera said, "Well, call me if you need me otherwise you are good to go". Yet another wonderful physician with a great capacity for care and most especially kindness and respect.
We did run the Turkey Trot on Thanksgiving morning. Crazy but a beautiful day and lots of friends were about wishing us well. Stephen ran too. Keith slept in like a normal 19 year old. It was a fun event and finishing allowed that second piece of Pumpkin Pie! Then it was packing for the weekend.
When Joe started regaining his mental capacity several months ago, one of the first things he said was I just have to take Stephen to the OSU vs Michigan game, like I did with Keith several years ago. Joe said, "You never know what might happen". Well, it was incredible an adventure for Joe and Stephen. We flew in the Friday after Thanksgiving. John, our Best Man, gathered up Stephen and Joe and enjoyed a wonderful pizza and sub lunch, (yes both) and my sister Patty rescued me from all the testosterone and we went to lunch with Mom and my sisters Mary and Angie. What a great treat for me too and then it was back to Black Friday shopping then on to the Warnecke farm.
Back in Columbus, John had arranged a tailgate trip to a local restaurant to see two former OSU players and Joe even met Earl Bruce, a former coach. John and Lisa then hosted a party for Joe with several high school friends on Friday night. Saturday was game day and the weather was frigid but John, and his wife Lisa, took incredible care of all of the details to insure Joe's comfort and care. Saturday night a large group of Leahy's and Warnecke's met for dinner, again at John suggestion. Joe and Stephen then returned with me to my folks for a peaceful Sunday. My brother Ed and his wife Debbie served a chauffeurs and got us to Columbus to fly back to Alabama. Joe and Stephen had a thrilling weekend and I enjoyed a wonderful break.
We have made a few changes in Joe therapy regimen. Because the Low Vision Clinic in Birmingham, and specifically the Dynavision exercises, have proved so effective, we have decided to go once a week to Birmingham rather than every other week. So each Monday, probably for at least the next several months, we will make the drive. This therapy is designed to increase visual field by head movement strategies. The bonus effect I have noticed is increased reaction time and concentration in all areas of processing. Last month we also met with a driving therapist, Karen, to get an overall assessment. Quite to my surprise, the therapist found that Joe compensating techniques were amazing and there may be some limited opportunities for driving in the future. Certainly there are no guarantees but there is hope. Safety can never be substituted, for Joe and others on the road. Karen also works with patients on developing back to work strategies and she is excited to start working with Joe after the first of the year, twice a week. Both Karen and Shemetra, Joe's speech therapist, understand that Joe's primary goal is to get back to work. Practice lecturing, using PowerPoint software, tracking data, and managing student needs are all on the agenda. Plus, after the first of the year, Dr. Moriarty at UAH has asked Joe to regularly attend a Friday class which she supervises. Joe's role will be simply as a participant but being back in the environment will be so wonderful. The energy of students is so infectious.
Joe is now recognizing difficulties in several areas, especially the "executive functions", which are managed in the right frontal lobe of the brain, Joe area of injury. Just the "recognition" of this problem is fabulous in and of itself. Of course, I know he has problems in this area but his own ability to know of the problem is the first step to compensating behavior. Executive functions include organizing, sorting and keeping track of things, events, and even the day of the week. All of these items were impossible for Joe to manage several months ago but now he is understanding the problem and we are starting to find solutions for constant annoyances like misplacing personal items. It is miraculous for me to see his progress but there is a long road ahead.
But the very best part of the last six weeks is Joe's new driver. Well, a friend, of a friend of a friend, knew of a fellow who would be interested in managing Joe's transportation needs. This has been such a source of anxiety for me and for my return to work. Hup, our new driver, is already a good friend. He is kind and considerate, treats Joe with respect and is attentive to Joe's needs. UAH sponsors the driver so even that is managed. In such a difficult situation, all we had to do was ask for help. Though I still fret about many things, I feel confident that we have found an answer to this problem.
So Christmas is here. Presents are wrapped. Travel plans are finalized. Joe and I talked yesterday of those who lost their loved ones that dreadful day last February. We grieve with you and for all of the children so dramatically changed by this tragedy. And for all families, who have lost a loved one, this past year or before their time. May the Spirit of Christmas allow peace and the comfort of memories to fill your heart now and always.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
With gratitude and love, Ginny
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